"YOU WANT MR. RIGHT WHEN YOU ARE MISS. WRONG"

,Most times when you see a single lady and you engage her in a conversation on why she is not married, they often give many reasons but one that has most times formed their argument is that they have not seen ''Mr right''. When you probe further on what qualifies a man as Mr right? Then you are in for an answer that could rival any essay in a WAEC exam. You will such things as he must be tall, handsome, rich, treat me like a queen, must not be a cheat, and others to numerous to mention.

As they say, what is good for the goose is also good for the gander, many women want MR. RIGHT but are MISS WRONG. Equity demands that since you want Mr. Right, you should also be "Miss right" of strive to be one in order to strike a balance when you both finally meet or even to be ahead of other women in getting married.

Sadly enough, many women are "Miss Wrong". They don't have what it takes to be married. They want to get married but they still keep more than one man, many of these Mr right seeking ladies can't cook, clean the home, and do laundry. They lack rudimentary elements of how to make a successful home. A friend of mine just parted ways with a certain lady who each time she cooks, the oil used in preparing such meal will be enough to cook three different types of food. He has tried to teach her, but it appears there's no success in sight.

Some of these women have not improved themselves over the years to make a man consider them for marriage. Many over eat themselves and get unnecessarily fat and ugly, what to them is beauty is to fix all the artificialities of this world and engage in frivolous spending on irrelevant things. Some ladies, their wardrobe alone can start three boutiques in their street of which none of the money used in buying those things was sourced by them.


A lady that is up to marriage age should have something doing and has weaned herself off different bad characters. You don't expect to married to a Mr right and you are Miss wrong yourself are expecting to go and pollute his rightness or complement it. Will it be fair to be Miss wrong and you expect Mr right?

Princewill Chimereze.
@ P_ Chimereze. ,

Writer, Public Affairs Analyst,
Social Commentator.

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THE FINAL WHISTLE HAD ALREADY BEEN BLOWN

After the 2015 Presidential residential elections, many were not happy
that President Mohammadu Buhari emerged victorious. To these people it
was like they were still dreaming. After all the mudslinging, smear
and hate campaign how did Buhari still win the elections? Well
Nigerians voted for Change and thats it. When the result were
anounced, Goodluck Jonathan called Buhari and congratulated him, some
Nigerians called him a hero. Hero for what? For accepting that he lost
an election? Well, we accept he is a hero for losing an election he
nearly jeopardized.

That being the case, some people have refused to move on after the
elections especially in a particular section of the country. But we
must remind these people that as an ''Abobaku'' (in some Youruba
culture, a man who is supposed to live and die with the king) it
amounts to betrayal not to have gone into oblivion with your master
and party. They have resulted to unecessary and meaningless criticism
of the present Government to the point that a presidential media aid
have christined them ''Wailing Wailers''. You will hear such
meaningless statements as he said he wants to fight corruption yet he
is surrounded by Tinubu Atiku, Amaechi etc. So because in your
factless claim that some of the president's party associates are
corrupt he should not fight corruption? These same people termed as
corrupt have been with us since the last sixteen years yet your
masters did nothing about them. If you have a chance to kill your
enemies and you fail to do so, if your enemies have the same chance
and decides to kill you should you blame them? The President declared
an asset and in a supposed sane nation with sane Abobakus they could
not challenge his declaration in court rather they say its a lie . But
they wanted us to continue with a man who said he doesnt give a damn
about asset declarartion. Please the elections are over, unless you
want to conduct another unofficial one between the former President
and the Present which changes nothing till 2019.

These people come up with different criticisms without profering any
reasonable solution to pressing National issues just like their party
PDP who only attack institutions recently because to them in their
sixteen years of destruction, these institutions never functioned and
should continue so. One man who has still not come to terms with the
reality on ground is Ekiti State Governor, Ayo Fayose the "Market man
governor" whose next likely project to be commissioned might be the
distribution of chicken or fish to Ekiti people. He goes about
releasing meaningless stamens and recently his doom prediction for
Nigeria in 2016. But we must also remind him that he predicted worst
before the election especially the one on the current President being
in a London hospital many of which were false. We hope Fayose is not
indirectly predicting doom for himself?

Wailing wailers, the PDP, haters of President Buhari, haters of
Nigeria. Let me further add to your missery. The final whistle had
already been blown and like in the game of football, this tournament
have come to an end. Months after the President took over, what your
party and party affiliates made us believe were impossible had started
been possible. Atleast we can cut cost of governance and not travell
with a whole comunity for international engagement neither do we
budget for unecessary Firstladyship. Even in the face of dwindling Oil
prices, this Government came up with 6 trillion Naira budgets the
first of its kind in the country.

More have been done but thats not the intent of this article. Let me
remind you all that the glory days of this administration is still
ahead and no matter what, this present administration will be better
than the previous. So stop the irrelevant criticisms it will do you no
good. But if it heals your sorrow of the loss at the polls you can
continue but just know that you are already a nuisance to the society
with it.

Princewill Chimereze.
Writer, Analyst and Social commentator. He can be contacted on
amadiprincewill1@gmail.com
Twitter : @P_Chimereze.